Remember, all rules and penaltys by agreement only.
Maintenance Discipline - Don Brown
The power of submission
lies not in the ability
to to kneel before another,
to give ones body
or in the wearing of a collar.
The power of submission
can be found only in the heart
of the heart of one who gives her love
to another freely
knowing what joy and pain
will come from it.
Maintenance discipline is a practice of giving your sub/slave regular spankings to maintain her proper behaviour and attitude. From my experience when she receives this type of discipline she is more humble and her attitude is greatly improved.
Whether you as an HOH decide to conduct these on monthly, weekly or daily schedules is up to you, I have found that daily spanking work best.
Maintenance spankings help to remind her to be on her best behaviour and to help keep her attitude in the proper manner, letting her know that she is required to maintain her behaviour and not slip into being careless and disrespectful to her HOH.
When a woman has not been punished for some time the memory of the painful spanking she received due to her bad behaviour will start to fade. Her attitude may change for the worse, with a regular maintenance spanking she is reminded of just how painful a punishment spanking is and that she is required at all times to act accordingly.
Another reason for the maintenance spankings is to re-establish the emotional and intimate connection of her and the HOH, bringing out the Masculine energy from the HOH and the feminine energy from her.
All women crave this energy. This energy is what couples feel when they were still all flowers and sunsets.
A maintenance spanking will also give her the much needed stress relief that has built up since her last punishment spanking, allowing her tears to flow hence relieving her stress.
Along with the stress release, a maintenance spanking will also benefit her by showing her you are committed to the relationship.
Some men will not discipline due to fatigue, busy schedules, or fear of really taking control, with a regular maintenance spanking you can overcome this obstacle.
Regular maintenance spankings also provide to her that you care enough for her, that she is worth the trouble of regular scheduling spankings, and remind her that you as her HOH will enforce punishments when they warrant for her behaviour and attitude.
By spanking her on a regular basis will also serve as constant reminder of the love and commitment you have for her, allowing her to fully appreciate that you are the HOH and are in charge.
Remember that just as with a punishment spanking a maintenance spanking should be done long and hard enough to produce tears, allowing her to cry freely and release any stress she has built up, feeling the energy of your masculinity, and the love you both share for each other.
Always spank and let her receive with the love it has been given. Always share the pleasure of the pain, this way you will enjoy a trusting, obedient and respectful partner.
If ever you need advice never be too scared or proud to ask Me.
SLAVERY By David Stein
Slavery is not about suffering....
Slavery is about service.
Slavery is not about humiliation....
Slavery is about humility.
Slavery is not about pain....
Slavery is not about being present.
Slavery is not about being used....
Slavery is about being of use.
Slavery is not about control.....
Slavery is about letting go.
Slavery is not about what is done to you....
Salvery is about what you do for others.
Slavery is not about abuse....
Slavery is about acceptance.
Slavery in not about proving anything.....
Slavery is about being real.
Slavery in not about contempt....
Slavery is about respect.
Slavery is not about how you look....
Slavery is about how much you care.....
Slavery is not about denying yourself....
Slavery is about being open.
Slavery is not about bondage....
Slavery is about freeing your spirit.
Slavery is not about punishment.....
Slavery is about discipline.
Slavery is not about being unable to escape....
Slavery is about committed.
Slavery is not about submission....
Slavery is about obedience.
Slavery is not about fear....
Slavery is about trust.
Slavery is not about sex....
Slavery is about love.
Slavery is not about pleasure....
Slavery is about happiness....
